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Healing after abortion is possible. Break the silence. Reclaim your heart. Step into freedom.
The wounds of abortion run deep—both emotionally and spiritually. Shame, regret, and silence can weigh heavily on your heart and soul. But healing is real, and you don’t have to walk this journey alone. The very heart that carries your pain can become the source of your greatest freedom.
Your Self-Guided Healing Journey
Breaking Beautiful is perfect for women who are ready to begin their healing journey at their own pace. Designed for private, independent processing with a structured yet flexible approach. It includes optional access to a bi-weekly safe, judgment-free community and works beautifully alongside ongoing therapy sessions.
Breaking Beautiful: Where Grace Leads, Shame Falls, and Her Heart Breaks Free
Inside you'll find:
- 75 pages of deeply compassionate, trauma-informed guidance and support, created to meet your pain with understanding and your heart with hope
- The Five Pillars of Grace™ framework—Awareness | Identity | Forgiveness | Surrender | Becoming—your roadmap to unlocking the heart you thought was forever shackled
- The Three Facets of Forgiveness™ methodology, helping you release guilt, embrace grace, and reclaim your voice with courage and clarity
- Scripture and journaling prompts, allowing divine truth to meet you personally and ignite your soul’s healing.
- A transformative rhythm for every pillar: reach for the key → name the shackle → receive grace → step into your unshackled shift
- Access to free biweekly community support group when you're ready to connect
Your Personal Guided Journey With Greta
I've sat where you're sitting. I've carried the weight you're carrying. I've believed the lies you're believing. And I've found my way to the other side—not perfect, but free.
If you're ready to stop surviving and start truly healing... if you're tired of shame having the loudest voice in your life... let me show you the way home to your authentic self.
Begins with: Complimentary Unshackling Heart Discovery Session
Step into a safe, trauma-informed conversation designed to explore your vision of freedom:
- A compassionate, trauma-informed conversation to explore what freedom could begin to look like in your journey forward
- A gentle look at where you are now, so we can determine your readiness and how the framework supports your next steps
- An introduction to the healing pathway, giving you a clear sense of what it looks like to walk it with guidance
- No pressure, no sales - just genuine guidance toward your healing
If we’re a mutual fit, your journey includes:
- The Breaking Beautiful guidebook as your foundation, giving structure and direction each step of the way
- 12 weekly one-on-one coaching sessions, guiding you through the Five Pillars of Grace™ with compassionate support
- The Mirror → Mask → Movement™ process, using our full Mask Ecosystem work and Mask Shifting Prevention strategies:
- Mirror → honest self-awareness of where suffocation is happening
- Mask → identifying which of the 14+ signature masks are active
- Movement → concrete steps to remove masks sustainably, with prevention to avoid shifting into new ones
- Client-led conversations, honoring where you are and what you’re ready to uncover
- Access to a free biweekly community support group, so you’re never walking this road alone
Grace That Meets You
Not where others think you should be, but exactly where you are right now—with all your questions, doubts, and fears. No prerequisites. No perfect words required.
Hands That Hold Your Story
Your story will be held with care, without judgment, and with the deep belief that every story—including yours—can be redeemed. You don't have to carry it alone anymore.
Hope That Feels Possible
Not the kind of hope that ignores your pain, but the kind that transforms it. Hope that doesn't ask you to forget, but helps you believe that healing is real—and so is your future.
A Heart Unshackled: Greta's Story of Redemption and Grace
I'm not sharing my story to impress you - I'm sharing it to give you hope
that if grace could reach me in the depths of shame, guilt, and regret -
it can reach you too.
INSPIRED BY THE WOMEN WE SERVE
What Grace Might Sound Like on Her
"I stopped pretending I was okay."
"I carried it for years… the secret, the shame, the story no one knew. I got good at pretending—smiling, performing, leading. But inside, I was sinking.
It wasn’t until I encountered this space that I realized healing was even an option. I didn’t have to carry it alone. I didn’t have to fake peace anymore.
Now? I still have scars, but I also have freedom. I’m learning to breathe again—and believe again."
- Anonymous
"Grace met me in the silence."
I never told anyone—not even my closest friends. I was afraid of what they’d think.
But the truth is, I didn’t need their judgment. I already judged myself enough.
When I found this community, something shifted. It wasn’t loud. It wasn’t forced. It was gentle. Grace-filled.
Healing started slowly, in quiet places. And now? I’m learning to live unshackled—one tender step at a time.
- Anonymous
"I never thought healing was for me."
I believed the lie that I had to be punished forever. That I deserved to stay stuck.
When I found Hearts Unshackled, it was like someone finally looked me in the eye and said, “You still matter.
I read the words. I cried through the guide. I started praying again.
And slowly, my heart began to believe what my soul always knew: I am not beyond redemption. I am not alone. And I am still worthy of love.
- Anonymous
MEET THE FOUNDER & GUIDE
From silenced by shame to leading with grace, Greta Bates is living proof that redemption is possible — and freedom is obtainable.
When asked about the weight of her work, Greta simply smiles and says: "God told me I'm not the exception — I'm the evidence of His relentless love. Evidence that He still heals, still redeems, and still raises up women like me… especially those who were never expected to rise."
As a Certified Professional & Trauma-Informed Coach and founder of Hearts Unshackled™, Greta walks with post-abortive women who are ready to rise from the pain of their past and reclaim their voice.
She's not here to condemn or convince. She's here to walk with women after the silence has settled, after the shame has taken root — when grace is the only way forward.
A survivor herself, Greta created this movement from lived experience, not theory. She guides women through spiritual restoration and personal transformation — equipping them to release guilt, reclaim identity, and rise into unapologetic authenticity.
She isn't just a witness to what's possible. She is the proof.